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imperfect_cupcake · 10-13-2013, 09:42 AM

well I finally think I'm ready to be able to have a relationship. I'm actually pretty open to many things but there are things I *need* not want:

they can't be hung up on "being a gentleman" or we'll never get anywhere. I do need someone who isn't sexually shy. who can talk filth. who is t going to hold back because they think they need to act to some bizarre code. we'll be waiting forever if they wait more me to get dirty first. I can talk filth to peel paint off a wall but I am reactive and I bounce off of another's desire for me. being lusted after gets me going. I will respond very well but they have to start the engine.

I need a sense of humour that can take teasing/taking the piss. this is how I flirt. banter. I need someone able to tease and take the piss back so we can flirt with humour/sex. then get dirty. talking to me about flowers and chocolates and kittens and the colour of my eyes is not going to turn me on. think burlesque humour. naughty. nasty. slightly vulgar.

I'm still old fashioned in many ways but not in "protecting my honour" stuff. my honour doesn't need saving/protecting, it needs ravaging

I need someone who is a bedroom dominant rather than a top. I go weak kneed for someone who wants to use me for their own pleasure, not someone whos main concern is my pleasure. if their pleasure is to force me to orgasm 15 times then do it, don't ask me in bed what I want. I'm not a bottom, I'm a submissive. I there to be thiers. to do/take whatever they want. if the onus is in me to decide or say... doesn't work well for me.

I need someone who loves to talk. or converse. ever since coming home I dated a string of lone wolf/string silent types and it just doesn't work. if you can't laze about with me and talk about yourself and your life or how you see things or what you want to be doing... I'll get bored and lonely. I want to go to the natural history museum and sit on the floor by the butterfly case and talk about what the things you see makes you think of or remember. we'll have a great shag in the morning, have coffee and brekkie, then head out for a day of exploring and conversation.

and a submarine. I'd like someone to have a submarine.

10-13-2013, 09:42 AM	#124
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	well I finally think I'm ready to be able to have a relationship. I'm actually pretty open to many things but there are things I need not want: they can't be hung up on "being a gentleman" or we'll never get anywhere. I do need someone who isn't sexually shy. who can talk filth. who is t going to hold back because they think they need to act to some bizarre code. we'll be waiting forever if they wait more me to get dirty first. I can talk filth to peel paint off a wall but I am reactive and I bounce off of another's desire for me. being lusted after gets me going. I will respond very well but they have to start the engine. I need a sense of humour that can take teasing/taking the piss. this is how I flirt. banter. I need someone able to tease and take the piss back so we can flirt with humour/sex. then get dirty. talking to me about flowers and chocolates and kittens and the colour of my eyes is not going to turn me on. think burlesque humour. naughty. nasty. slightly vulgar. I'm still old fashioned in many ways but not in "protecting my honour" stuff. my honour doesn't need saving/protecting, it needs ravaging I need someone who is a bedroom dominant rather than a top. I go weak kneed for someone who wants to use me for their own pleasure, not someone whos main concern is my pleasure. if their pleasure is to force me to orgasm 15 times then do it, don't ask me in bed what I want. I'm not a bottom, I'm a submissive. I there to be thiers. to do/take whatever they want. if the onus is in me to decide or say... doesn't work well for me. I need someone who loves to talk. or converse. ever since coming home I dated a string of lone wolf/string silent types and it just doesn't work. if you can't laze about with me and talk about yourself and your life or how you see things or what you want to be doing... I'll get bored and lonely. I want to go to the natural history museum and sit on the floor by the butterfly case and talk about what the things you see makes you think of or remember. we'll have a great shag in the morning, have coffee and brekkie, then head out for a day of exploring and conversation. and a submarine. I'd like someone to have a submarine.