04-15-2010, 02:09 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by las68
Thanks. Kind of hard to prove it wasn't a gift cuz it will be my word against hers. I'm just out about $4800. Personal property value is less than $5000 but there are some sentimental things at her place, like my deceased mothers recipe box and other personal stuff. Damn I never thought we would be here...
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May I make a suggestion? Call her...do not get angry, do not bring up money...just tell her that you want your personal stuff, especially the things that have sentimental value to you that once belonged to your mother. Ask her when it would be convenient for you to come and get them. That is all. Do not go into anything else. Do not argue. Just make your statement and ask her for a time.
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