Kobi, I'm not purposely trying to irk you, nor was I "giving a feminist pep talk", matter of fact I wasn't even posting from any kind of feminist thought in mind, my post came from thinking about it and reading all the posts. My post and participation in this thread is like everyone else just thoughts and opinions on th subject matter. As for the reasoning as to why I used *Butches/Men/Guys* , well I did that cause this particular online venue caters to all of those identities and more... I ALSO stated in my post that "My thoughts and feelings on this particular question are this: But first before I type it all out I want to clarify that these *ARE MY THOUGHTS* and they do not reflect nor are they are general blanket statement to all things marriage, butch, femme, queer, etc."
So you see I was very clear upfront about how I
wasn't making blanket statements about anyone.
And now I'm out, I enjoyed the dialogue and will continue reading