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Toughy · 11-19-2009, 01:33 PM

I needed a username and was going through hell trying to figure it out. One day I was sending an email to a friend and saw the addy........toughone@__________

BINGO........I stole that name from my bud........laughin....and

toughy was born...........way back then I didn't capitalize it, however (smiling at WT and Bit) I had several kinky folk decide I was a bottom/sub because I didn't capitalize it. I'm a Top/Dom. So it became Toughy and always has been Toughy since I have been on line.

People call me T or Toughy depending on where they meet me first....

I go by my given name at work and generally have even when it was a LGBTQI agency. My blood family has a nickname for me....my ex-wife called me that before she knew my family called me that......I also have a Goddess name.

Isadora generally calls me by my given name........she is one of the rare ones outside work and blood family.

The thing I find most interesting.....depending on which name you call me, affects, mostly in subtle ways, how you interact with me.....

11-19-2009, 01:33 PM	#44
Toughy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: pervert butch feminist woman Preferred Pronoun?: see above Relationship Status: independent entity Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Oakland Posts: 1,826 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,068 Thanked 7,653 Times in 1,522 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I needed a username and was going through hell trying to figure it out. One day I was sending an email to a friend and saw the addy........toughone@__________ BINGO........I stole that name from my bud........laughin....and toughy was born...........way back then I didn't capitalize it, however (smiling at WT and Bit) I had several kinky folk decide I was a bottom/sub because I didn't capitalize it. I'm a Top/Dom. So it became Toughy and always has been Toughy since I have been on line. People call me T or Toughy depending on where they meet me first.... I go by my given name at work and generally have even when it was a LGBTQI agency. My blood family has a nickname for me....my ex-wife called me that before she knew my family called me that......I also have a Goddess name. Isadora generally calls me by my given name........she is one of the rare ones outside work and blood family. The thing I find most interesting.....depending on which name you call me, affects, mostly in subtle ways, how you interact with me.....