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How Do You Identify?: I Am
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Join Date: Mar 2010
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Abuse comes in many forms and disguises.
And it never, never, ever seems to take a holiday.
As some first responders will share, holidays are the worst.
Like many I feel as if I have received my full "share" of what I call abuse.
Every story is told from the perspective of the story teller. My story is no different. I can share what little I have learned on my earth walk. Maybe it helps someone, maybe it doesn't. I prefer to listen and encourage the speaker. Rehashing the past, telling my "story " has not helped me heal any faster or better. Forgiving, having gratitude, sharing material and spiritual gifts has been the best healing process for me.
Many "helpers" appear when I least expect to point the way for me in various forms. Books, quotes that folks here at BFP post, friends casual talks, weird movies, odd moments, something my grandchildren say or do.
Thank you for sharing your perspective regarding your experience with me. Noted.
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