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imperfect_cupcake · 12-14-2013, 03:31 PM

Whirl-wind romance or Typical romance style. I can't do romantic drama anymore so I can't deal with possessiveness, control, tantrums, care taking demands, and those who don't give me the space to be an independant person. I'm too old and tired to be someone's Catherine to their healthcliffe. Treat me like a friend, have great sex, let me lead my life and as it develops and see how we fit, it may be a good thing.

I'm too old for insecurity and low self esteem in partners anymore. I can't cope with extreme shyness, inability to communicate or jealous bullshit. I will take care of myself so you don't have to, and I expect the same of you. I'm happy to help support you at times when you need your friend, but not a parent in the form of a partner. I don't desire for you to be my "Daddy" either outside of any bedroom context.

I don't want a parent and I don't want to be one. I don't want someone to look after me and I look after them. I want us to look after ourselves and include each other in our lives like friends and adults. What goes on in the bedroom is our fantasy about losing or gaining control, but it stays there.

12-14-2013, 03:31 PM	#358
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Whirl-wind romance or Typical romance style. I can't do romantic drama anymore so I can't deal with possessiveness, control, tantrums, care taking demands, and those who don't give me the space to be an independant person. I'm too old and tired to be someone's Catherine to their healthcliffe. Treat me like a friend, have great sex, let me lead my life and as it develops and see how we fit, it may be a good thing. I'm too old for insecurity and low self esteem in partners anymore. I can't cope with extreme shyness, inability to communicate or jealous bullshit. I will take care of myself so you don't have to, and I expect the same of you. I'm happy to help support you at times when you need your friend, but not a parent in the form of a partner. I don't desire for you to be my "Daddy" either outside of any bedroom context. I don't want a parent and I don't want to be one. I don't want someone to look after me and I look after them. I want us to look after ourselves and include each other in our lives like friends and adults. What goes on in the bedroom is our fantasy about losing or gaining control, but it stays there.