I know plenty of strong, proud butches. "We" are certainly not dying out. We are not dinosaurs. As long as there are humans on the planet, there will be butches. It isn't a phase...it is human nature. I know many butch/butch, femme/femme and butch/femme couples. "We" are out there and if you haven't found your O/one yet, this person is looking for you, too.
I could put on scrubs and glove up, but it wouldn't make Me a Doctor. Moreso, I could wear a tutu but it SURE won't make Me a ballerina. Clothes are only a small part of the person whatever they may be. As is the label. It is only an outward sign of what is in their hearts, minds and souls. Granted, there are times when I dress a particular way that the clothes reinforce what is there... but it is only a reinforcement of what exists and is firmly in place.
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“Hy who risks and fails can be forgiven. Hy who never risks and never fails is a failure in Hys whole being.”
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