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imperfect_cupcake · 12-26-2013, 10:23 PM

I like hearing personal stories. Openness about themselves. I can't STAND "dark and mysterious" or extremely private. Its never ever worked with me and people who are really private or shy because all I want to know is about their lives and they are too gaurded/insecure to tell me all the stories of their childhood, their growing up, their jobs, their travels, their exes, their love lives... the kinds of things you share with your friends. instead they are trying to be elusive, mysterious, polite... and it BORES the living crap out of me, I bloody hate it.

I have been told "I'm not going to let you know what kind of freak I am!" (oh. too bad. and I broke it off with her. I was sorely disappointed because I actually was looking forward to getting to know her. If shes not going to share her stuff with me then its a no goer)
and "But if I don't hold things back and I tell you everything, then there will be nothing left to say and hold your interest!"
??????????????????????????????????????????? wow. that's all I can say to that one. Fuck. Really? wow. Nevermind.

I love conversation about science and quantum and biology and chemistry but... I also love highly personal stuff that people can share and joke and laugh about. People being "polite" means they are very and oh so serious. I can't deal with it. Makes me want to open my wrists. I get treated like a delicate flower and there is no banter, piss assing about, no friendship and belly laughter and hooting and just being myself. I love urban life but jesus you don't have to have pole up your arse at a good restaurant. Please don't treat me like a 1950's girl. I'm not. I'm really, really not. Treat me like a sexy best mate that gives great head and you'd love to have a pic nic with and giggle with on a road trip.
I'm not a Lady. Nor am I a princess. I'm a partner and a good friend and great sex. I get muddy and wash up and go to the theater.
I'm human. I don't care if you make a call. or don't open all my doors. I don't want a fairy tale. I want you. and an adventure.

12-26-2013, 10:23 PM	#266
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I like hearing personal stories. Openness about themselves. I can't STAND "dark and mysterious" or extremely private. Its never ever worked with me and people who are really private or shy because all I want to know is about their lives and they are too gaurded/insecure to tell me all the stories of their childhood, their growing up, their jobs, their travels, their exes, their love lives... the kinds of things you share with your friends. instead they are trying to be elusive, mysterious, polite... and it BORES the living crap out of me, I bloody hate it. I have been told "I'm not going to let you know what kind of freak I am!" (oh. too bad. and I broke it off with her. I was sorely disappointed because I actually was looking forward to getting to know her. If shes not going to share her stuff with me then its a no goer) and "But if I don't hold things back and I tell you everything, then there will be nothing left to say and hold your interest!" ??????????????????????????????????????????? wow. that's all I can say to that one. Fuck. Really? wow. Nevermind. I love conversation about science and quantum and biology and chemistry but... I also love highly personal stuff that people can share and joke and laugh about. People being "polite" means they are very and oh so serious. I can't deal with it. Makes me want to open my wrists. I get treated like a delicate flower and there is no banter, piss assing about, no friendship and belly laughter and hooting and just being myself. I love urban life but jesus you don't have to have pole up your arse at a good restaurant. Please don't treat me like a 1950's girl. I'm not. I'm really, really not. Treat me like a sexy best mate that gives great head and you'd love to have a pic nic with and giggle with on a road trip. I'm not a Lady. Nor am I a princess. I'm a partner and a good friend and great sex. I get muddy and wash up and go to the theater. I'm human. I don't care if you make a call. or don't open all my doors. I don't want a fairy tale. I want you. and an adventure.