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Originally Posted by Bad_boi
Well it could go in any category really. All genders can strap up. I wouldn't really worry to much. There will always be a slight overlap with a lot of subjects.
I like getting sucked off its one of my favorite things to get me going. I would highly recommend giving it a try if all parties are willing.
I think that if your partner is shy about it then perhaps figure out why she is shy. If she likes it but is embarrassed its kinda one of those things that you can work though. Sometimes eye contact while getting a bj is awkward so that is a common factor for being embarrassed since a lot of it for the receiver is visual stimulation where they would like to watch. A quick glance up at your partner to see if they like it is just fine but more than that can make things a bit odd.
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She really had a hard time coming out, and never used any toys with any other partners, so this is all new to her. Unfortunatly, she dated women who encouraged her to stay closeted and, I feel, encouraged her to be ashamed of her sexuality also. So, I really appreciate knowing not to watch while I do it, because it would probably not dawned on me.