All of this communal living talk is giving me heart palpitations! Even though my current living situation is not so far off from "communal" -- it's challenging to me sometimes. The only reason it works for me is that I have absolute autonomy, my personal space is large and well removed from the others, the others respect my need for space (mostly), and it has nothing to do with my love/sex life.
This gal loves her "me time". For those of you who feel you require a good amount of time to yourselves and greatly value your autonomy --- how do you balance that with multiple lovers and/or play partners?
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My wish for you is that you continue. Continue to be who and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humor to lighten the burden of your tender heart. - Maya Angelou
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