[caffeinelover]

1 -Healthy in body and mind =

In body: No self-inflicted diseases ( ex: lung cancer from smoking, obesity from overeating, lack of mobility from said obesity and lack of exercise, etc = I'm an ex-obese before you flame me!)

Zero addictions: including porn, videogames, internet, prescription drugs such as antidepressant (someone unable to function without their pills).
Alcohol socially o.k. Occasional marijuana negotiable.
Preferably non-smoker.

In mind: Psychologically- sound:with no unrecognized unhealthy patterns.
Negotiable: Someone working on themselves actively through therapy, meditation, whatever form of self-development is fine with me as long as there is action taken.

2- Not hurting animals or human beings.
No hunting or fishing, no working in the meat industry or any industry hurting animals, no restraining orders from abused spouses or family members in their past

3- Loyalty, faithfulness