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*Anya* · 01-20-2014, 11:02 AM

Everything that I wrote when this thread was started in December, 2011, still holds true for me.

I left out one thing.

I can write one item as a very, very, big part of a healthy relationship and very non-negotionable:

1. Laughter
2. Laughter
3. More laughter

My GF makes me laugh all of the time.

She can give me a look, when she can tell I am a tad peeved about something, that will cause me to burst out laughing.

My laughter can make me melt into a ball of romantic vulnerability.

I can take pretty much everything too seriously.

She helps me to separate out which ones that I should take seriously and which ones require laughter.

I think laughter is as much the glue for a good relationship, as is great sex, excellent communication, fidelity and honesty.

01-20-2014, 11:02 AM	#254
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,454 Times in 7,284 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Everything that I wrote when this thread was started in December, 2011, still holds true for me. I left out one thing. I can write one item as a very, very, big part of a healthy relationship and very non-negotionable: 1. Laughter 2. Laughter 3. More laughter My GF makes me laugh all of the time. She can give me a look, when she can tell I am a tad peeved about something, that will cause me to burst out laughing. My laughter can make me melt into a ball of romantic vulnerability. I can take pretty much everything too seriously. She helps me to separate out which ones that I should take seriously and which ones require laughter. I think laughter is as much the glue for a good relationship, as is great sex, excellent communication, fidelity and honesty. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner