[WolfyOne]

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

I found someone on facebook I grew up with.. She accepted my friend request and when she realized that it was me and I was gay she erased her friendship... Its sad. It makes me sad to have so many that I grew up around disown me because of who I am. Its one thing to have my adopted parents do that, Ive been soooooo used to that since I was little. But to have childhood friends I grew up do that? Its still hard and it never gets old. I know its their loss... But its still a small pain

If the person could do that to you, then they never really knew how to be a friend in the first place BBM. I spent years dealing with my oldest brother's homophobia that when my mom died, it gave me the perfect opportunity to stop talking to him. That was almost 10 years ago and it doesn't bother me at all. I learned I first have to be true to me and not worry what others think.