I am not sure I would define makeup and wearing women's clothing - Butch Femininity. I believe the feminine energy, as does the masculine energy comes from within and not how we dress ourselves.
It would be the same if I wore boxers and lumberjack shirts? Would this define me? (which btw I do and I have).
Years ago when my children were young, I dated a Lawyer who worked at the UN. This Butch was BUTCH BUTCH BUTCH and her energy incredibly masculine. She wore tailored women's suits and makeup. Beautiful diamond earrings and a pendant that belonged to her Momma. I never slept with her though, so I have no idea what her undergarments were. She was a controlling bitch
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This thread in some ways reminds me of the one nycFem started "
Name a way(s) you break the stereotypes of "Butch" / "Femme" / "FTM" etc"