Some fool shared with me that my ex asked HER ex out (but her ex declined), at some point last year.
My ex and I were broken up for a few months during the first year I moved out of her house. We both had feelers out there during that broken-up time, but it still shook me up and hurt me, to hear that news. I began to remember things, and wonder how much I don't know about my ex.
The person who shared that news (why???) didn't know my ex has been in intensive care for months, is still not safe, and that she broke up with me again from her hospital bed, through her sister, not even to my face, after our sweet visits, and her loving emails right up to that time, which I'll always cherish.
Whatever happens, I want to remember her in the most positive light possible.
Don't share gossip with people, that can hurt them. That's what I'm taking away from this. I woke up in the night reliving things I have been making progress letting go of. It stirred me up, that person's little bit of news. People are so stupid sometimes.
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