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Originally Posted by ConCrtAnge1
OK please allow me to clean this post up a bit.. First off the wording of True Butch comes off wrong I understand however having dated womyn who ID as butch around here are no more then Chapstick Lesbians. Sorry to have offended or confused but what I said. "True song and dance" was more meant as they need to be on the same song and dance as myself!! As for having to a butch who is also in tune with her sexuality as a womyn isn't so wrong. I feel as if my wording was way off for that I am sorry. Please forgive... I also know Butch isn't just the clothing or the hair.. I know it goes so much deeper..
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I bolded the parts of this I'm going to address.
It's perfectly fine for you to know what you're attracted to, what calls to you. I think it's great you know what you want.
However you do not get to quantify me or others. By my appearance or size or race, I would likely fall into your "no more than Chapstick Lesbians" model.
But I'm butch because I say I am, not because someone else conferred that upon me.
I bolded that last part because it seems incongruent with the prior statement. I'd like to believe this is true for you.