[Medusa]

Folks-

I am making the executive decision to close this thread while I review it and create some guidelines about what can and cannot be posted here.

This thread has been a headache since the beginning for the Mod team because we have way too many people on this site who have dated other members here who want to talk about what did not work for them in the relationship in ways that are and have been problematic.

Look, I want adults to be able to talk about relationships and what we can do better. I actually find it helpful knowing that some of my own triggers are shared by other members here. What I don't want is for folks who break up on this site to use this thread to swipe at one another or make each other feel shitty. And let's face, there are some folks here who have crappy boundaries.

I'm not calling out anyone specific here because this isn't about one person, this is about the need to make sure this thread is used in ways that can help better us as individuals and as a community and NOT used in ways that are unhealthy or negative.

In the meantime, please do not start another thread with this same theme.

My Dad is having surgery tomorrow and I will be out of the loop with him for several days. Please allow me those days to be with him and I will come back with some guidelines for using this thread.

Appreciate those of you contributing and let's please all work together to keep this community a healthy and positive one!

Thanks,
Angie