My ex asked me to strap for her (butch) and it blew me away. We never got around to it because of other issues... But she also would tell me I'm not ready for it, etc... And maybe I wasn't. Now, I am so turned on by the thought of strapping for a butch and making love to a butch in MY lap.
I like making love to butches and kissing their bodies, eating pussy, ass, and sucking on breasts and nipples.
I like to be the service-or and even more I love it when a butch begs me to make love to them. I wish more butches would do that and not feel self conscious about it.
I love to give oral sex to butches and hearing them moan and groan. I love to feel her climax in my mouth because it makes me wet/ gives me orgasm as well.
The whole stone butch thing is a myth- that they are the only ones who can cum from giving pleasure to someone else.
I'm a femme and I feel the same way- that I get turned on if my partner is showing that she likes whatever it is that I'm doing.
But it's the butches that I want. I've been with femmes/ bi girls/ straight girls and it's ok.... But def not like being with a butch lesbian.
With my ex, she would get really turned on and in the mood if I talked to her. Since I'm quite shy, I didn't want to speak in English, so instead I would turn her on my speaking in Russian... Saying things like I've been dreaming of you all day. You are so beautiful, I want to make love to you. It turns me on when you're so wet. Etc, etc. it got the job done. And after she cums, I would climb on top and rub pussies and get off that way.
I'm talking to a woman, not a man, so why would me talking to her not be feminine . When making love to a butch, I get so soft... So so soft. Not like when they fuck me. And the way I talk is extremely feminine.
What I think some butches misinterpret is that just because I'm so soft and sweet that it makes them feel like a femme. But, that's just not possible .
And I do feel that butch lesbians are beautiful. I know many prefer handsome and that's fine. But they are still women.
Now, to describe more accurately what my experience also entails... Butches are often irritable when given too much attention. They often take your hand and mouth away. They get frustrated if they can't cum. They don't want to be touched and referred to as women. They don't want to be made love to.
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