Thread: do Butches /Daddys have the green light to be rude and /or bossy in public ?
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Old 05-17-2014, 08:50 PM   #6
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I don't think anyone has the green light to be bossy or rude to those working in customer service by virtue of ANY identity category. Be it Butch and/or Daddy, or Femme.

I think sometimes a masculine appearance or identity can be conflated with being more assertive or aggressive. I don't believe it's necessarily true. Also--what is "bossy" and just "assertive" is sometimes a matter of perception and taste.

I haven't personally noticed that being rude or bossy in public is linked to Butch identity.
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