Member
How Do You Identify?: Butch female
Preferred Pronoun?: Hy, Hym, Hys
Relationship Status: I know her heartsong and she, mine
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: England
Posts: 155
Thanks: 117
Thanked 359 Times in 98 Posts
Rep Power: 4153374
|
I feel this way ... Tr**ny may be a word many hear used with distaste and in a derogatory manner ... but I seem to remember back in the days before and after I came out in 1969 that Dyke was used in a way to upset, antagonize, belittle, berate ... I could go on and on, really.
I see nothing wrong with the use of a noun/adjective by people who mean it justly, rather than condescending or derogatorily. I frequently use the word Dyke in place of Lesbian to describe myself and take no offence (even if it is meant) when called one.
My two pennies worth ...
Regards,
Aryon
__________________
"To love a person is to learn the song that is in their heart and to sing it to them when they have forgotten it."
"Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink. But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must steal, steal away from bad company. If you must cheat, cheat death. And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away."
My Pictures: https://picasaweb.google.com/115942843945062331510
My Blog: http://christhebutch.wordpress.com
|