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Originally Posted by fever
Hello everyone! I am tired of being everyone's "friend". Maybe we should discuss approach and how to meet single folks on this site.
Should femmes approach the butches?
If a femme writes to a butch, is she seen as desperate?
If a femme talks to a butch first in chat, and asks where he lives, etc., is she seen as aggressive?
So far, trying to be polite and let the butch make the first move isn't working for a lot of us, so, we need a new approach obviously.
sick of sleeping alone,
Candice
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Fever,
Good questions! Thanks for starting some conversation.
For me, I feel that if I like someone, I should be able to make it known. Even if that means me approaching them. I am a confident and independent woman, in all parts of my life. So, if me talking to them first makes them uncomfortable, maybe its not a good fit.
BUT, that being said. I still get shy when I meet new people most of the time. I am not sure what to say, or how to start.
Right now, I am trying to concentrate on getting to know a lot of new people. Having real conversations, making friends, and hoping that one of those amazing friendships will highlight deeper possibilities.