[Kobi]

Originally Posted by Medusa

On my mind is how much it PISSES ME OFF to see straight women being interchanged with Femmes in the "desire olympics", especially when done by Butches who, in other spaces, purport to love them some Femmes. (and no, this is not about anyone here and not even a specific context)

Like, we've had this conversation a million times and I can't understand it. I can hear the loud exclamations in my head if Femmes started drooling over photos of George Clooney or Denzel Washington and were like "OMG, this Butch is so hot!!!"

I mean, FOR REAL??

I'm confused.

If I am reading this right, you are pissed off because in the "desire olympics" it appears Butches interchange straight women and Femmes.

And, you think Butches would be pissed off if Femmes started drooling over biological men like George or Denzel.

But, it is ok for Femmes to see Butches as a garden salad of female, male, trans, two sexed, inter sexed and whomever I forgot, AND who may be lesbian, queer, straight and whatever I may have forgotten?

I dont know if it is "for real" but it sounds a lot like the proverbial double standard.