youre so right, cri ~s
often people misinterpret good deeds as attacks, or at the very least an insult. its timely for me that you began this thread today. yesterday, on the planet, i shared some information about a hand-on approach to dealing with chronic pain with a particular chatter, one whom i did not know. said chatter had posted about their constant and unrelenting pain. my 'thank you' came in the form of a 'how rude! do not contact me again' lol. oh well.
how fortunate your co-worker was that you are so conscientious.
joy