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How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC
Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she
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Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: nj
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I have learned over the years that I do good deeds because I feel it is the right thing to do. I have no expectations...in the 12 step programs they say "take the action and let go of the results". This is what I live by (of course, what goes around, comes around is also in my psyche as well, my fuck you to someone unappreciative, lol). I remember when doing things and not getting something from someone in return and I complained about it to my father he would say "were you giving or lending". That brought it home. It has taken some time for me to really understand that. But I do try to keep it in mind. (of course, like Anya) you fucker is under my breath. But be careful.
I had a client recently tell me a funny story. He was driving and on a conference call for work. He thought that the car phone was on mute and when someone cut him off he called them (his words, not mine) a fucking douche. Well, it was not on speaker phone and his client said, I hope you did not mean me.
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