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Butch,
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People call me by my nic name.
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Not Single, Not Desperate.
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Florida
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Quote:
Originally Posted by D Phryxus
Yes "it depends"
However, in my experience and in seeing similar situations with others...very rarely does this work out.
The only ex I still associate with is only an ex because we now have 5k miles between us. We still have feelings for each other and if distance were not a factor we would still be in a sexual/romantic relationship.
The other exes and I don't speak to each other unless we are at an event and run into each other. We are civil but I wouldn't say we are friends.
Part of me really wishes I could be optimistic about exes as friends. I want to believe it can happen. However, I would always advise caution. There is a reason that person is no longer in your life.
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In every situation is dealt with differently same with ex's and not all will turn out the same where as I'm friends with an ex and another I don't even talk to her and her and I live in the same state!
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