[Kobi]

Originally Posted by JDeere

I agree, that the behavior needs to be focused but I know the vast majority is males because some men, including transmen like myself, don't say they were abused by a female. However, in the prisons and jails here, in Oklahoma are starting to fill up with women who are violent as well. I think both genders need to take responsibility for their actions, then deal with the learned behavior.

JD, with all due respect, this thread is for breaking news events. Domestic violence perpetrated by male NFL players towards the women in their lives and their own children has been big in the news the past couple of weeks.

You appear to have a different issue which may be better discussed elsewhere.

And, the feminist in me is trying real hard not to characterize your words as misogynistic and sexist. Many a woman on this web site can attest to violent behavior from transmen.

And one of the biggest ways men derail, dismiss, make excuses for, and otherwise dilute the issue of male violence is to take the focus off of men and put it on women.

Very common tactic. Sad but very common.

Have a good evening.