[imperfect_cupcake]

Hmn, yeah, I left some out. No kids. And I don't switch. And as for kink, I let it naturally bleed outside the bedroom as is relaxed and natural for our dynamic. But it will never be public. And never 24/7. My papa is my papa. Always. But a natural and intelligent comprehension of daily life limits and sometimes I like being kids together, with each other.

I mommy top 10% of the time but only, only, only to Dominants. Never switches or subs.
I could never do vanilla. It's just not in me. Even in the most intense, intimate sex with a partner, there is power exchange and pushing boundaries. So, I couldn't.

Sex is extremely important to me in a relationship as is sarcastic/dark humour and intelligence. Those are my big three. Make me laugh at their shocking cheek and I'm instantly paying attention.

That's all I can't think of. I think everything has the possibility to change. I'm willing to bend on living together but I get my own room, and there is a house cleaner. I am never, ever cleaning up after someone again. And there is at least one day a week I have the house to myself. I may be an extrovert but I need my space away from my partner, no matter how much I love them. No more mixing money, no sharing cars, and preferably seperate living space. I would be open to marraige again, absolutely. But both of us sign a prenup.

I want, more than anything, to respect my partners independence, with love. And I want her to do the same with me. She does not need to be my best friend. But she needs to be one of my most favourite companions. I have had a best mate as a wife. And I think I'm done with that. Soul mates, no. But a commited partner that understands there are going to be crisies and challanges to deal with. That we are going to fight, that sometimes we won't be able to stand the sight of each other. Sometimes we won't like each other very much.
And be willing and adult enough to use their talky holes to negotiate and get through them to fall in love again