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Originally Posted by Kobi
Ok Im confused so help me out here.
When I read this, I am hearing a woman only wears lingerie, strikes a provocative pose and requires validation from an outside source to feel sexy. To me, this is a very male oriented, very hetero oriented mindset.
Are you saying a woman should never or would never wear sexy lingerie just to please herself?
I dont have a male mindset or a hetero mindset, so I dont get it. Can you explain it to me and what this has to do with being pc?
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Let me help you out with your confusion. I certainly
do wear lingerie just to please myself. But, personally, I find it even more fun to wear it for someone else. To please my partner,
is to please myself. It's a win/win situation for the both of us. And when I say my bedroom is a non politically correct zone, I mean I want it to be a place where we can explore our deepest, darkest fantasies without being limited by political correctness. A "come hither" look does not denigrate me as a woman in this context, rather it gets
me exactly what
I need, exactly what
I want. My partner is happy, I'm happy. I should think this would be the goal whether you have a hetero or queer mindset.