[Kobi]

Originally Posted by Candelion

Let me help you out with your confusion. I certainly do wear lingerie just to please myself. But, personally, I find it even more fun to wear it for someone else. To please my partner, is to please myself. It's a win/win situation for the both of us. And when I say my bedroom is a non politically correct zone, I mean I want it to be a place where we can explore our deepest, darkest fantasies without being limited by political correctness. A "come hither" look does not denigrate me as a woman in this context, rather it gets me exactly what I need, exactly what I want. My partner is happy, I'm happy. I should think this would be the goal whether you have a hetero or queer mindset.

Ok so if you wear lingerie to also just please yourself, then you may indeed wear it while watching television or cooking or cleaning or whatever you choose simply because it is to please you, yes?

And you are talking about removing political correctness from your own bedroom for the benefit of yourself and your partner. This makes sense to me. So, the need to post provocative come hither photos of unknown women in lingerie in this thread fits in to what happens in your own bedroom in what way?