[nycfem]

Hi, Kenna,

As you predicted in your post, going off on another member and sharing their personal business publicly is leading to a reported post and moderation. I am not sure whether I need to explain the moderation since you yourself chose to go for it even though you knew it would likely lead to moderation. And for the record, your post was NOT reported by the member who you went off on.

Whether Cinnamongrrl's original post was meant as a passive-aggressive jab at you or was simply her being pissed off and genuinely sharing it, we shall never know. However, with your posts there was no guessing. You were sharing personal information about another member's personal life publicly and with vindictiveness. You can't do this! You can report her post or message her privately or ignore it or put her on ignore, but you can't go off on her publicly relating to personal information.

From Cinnamon's post, I did not think of you, as I'm sure the vast majority of members who read it did not. From your post I learned that you and Cinnamon have been neighbors and having real life neighborhood goings-on, what those are, and that you are angry at her. That's too much information for a public forum and compromises Cinnnamon's privacy. It's also not the way to handle a post that you suspect or believe that you know is passive-aggressive.

If this doesn't make sense, I'm happy to engage with you more on this, but please PM me privately and take a cool down from this thread. In the future, if you know as you are typing that it is against the TOS/ moderation worthy, then please don't do it!

Thanks,
Jennifer