a rantless rant...
most of my friends are straight folks... i am tired of the judgements the whispers the games that seem to plague our community (20 years as a bar tender/owner of womens bar i am talking from experience) the lables the glossaries...the termonologies... simply tired of it... live and fucking let live!
be who you want, live your life for you... frankly you wake up in your own mind every day...allow your conscience to be your guide (as i tell every one) it is truely all we have...
your friend/acquaintance who has just made a revelation in her life, ought to be supported for finally finding her self.
a great woman i knew as a child once told me "girls mature faster than boys, but men know who they are earlier in life, woman don't really know themselves for decades" i have never forgotten that... we evolve everyday... time to support rather than attack.
i am glad your friend has found herself... i just hope the rest of us can and do sometime soon!
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