Look at yourself before you judge others.
Why is she a terrible individual? Because she's realized what it is she seeks, wants, needs and desires?
Wouldn't it be more appropriate to say it's wonderful that she figured this out before the relationship went any further? Before the marriage took place? Isn't it more important that she is being fair to the man rather than unfair? Giving him the opportunity to find true love with someone who wants everything he has to offer, including his maleness?
She is going to end the relationship, she is not leading him on and fuck anyone who believes otherwise (sorry, I've had my own sort of day).
When one enters into a relationship, queer or otherwise, one takes the risk of it not working for a cornucopia of reasons. Would so many be up in arms if she ended the relationship because she was not attracted to him any longer if she were still holding on to heterosexuality? Please. Spare me.
We in the community need to rally around each other, not beat each other down. Aren't there enough homophobes out there to do that for us? I find that too many people in glass houses are throwing stones and it's abhorent.
As for Arizona, it's disgusting. Cut and dry.
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