[Gemme]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Hey Gemme!!

I was wondering about your example of how we have to step up for our partners and how that came into the whole side of the bed thing, now that I read you I see and am clear you were coming from the *protective* angle which can literally apply to anyone be they FTM or Femme..

I'd like to clarify that I never implied *YOU* said anything that had to do with how women get portrayed as weak, I should of been more clear. I am lumping so much into one post on a phone that it may not be clear, it has been an interest read on how people choose to sleep in a bed, as for protective mode, well even I get that, as a woman walking the world dealing with people crossing personal boundaries is constant, I'm glad though that when I get home and want to sleep, how and where doesn't cross my mind I just go to sleep cause it's my space and I am pretty secure in it and it's perimeters even when there's a gun shot or two..

Thank you for taking the time to dialogue

I didn't say that we have to step up for our partners. I said oftentimes people will step to our partners...as in get in their face, etc. Basically all the crap that people do to those of us that are visible in the public eye.

Sorry if I didn't make that clear earlier but I'm glad that you were able to understand what I was trying to say.