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Originally Posted by flapdoodle
My Butch hubby wears a mans Italian suit daily.
I swoon every time I see her.....suit or not...the person makes the outfit and this person I married makes me swoon
I am lucky, I swoon daily, I might make that a bumper sticker.
Yummy
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Flapdoodle, this is so nice. I think your butch is very lucky too, to be so appreciated.
I too like the fact that this collection is quite diverse in terms of different types of butches represented.
On the age thing, I agree with everything Orema said. Sorry Rock if it hit a sore spot for you. Sometimes when femmes talk about liking tall butches I do bristle a little, but again it is only a preference.
When I read Fever's post I actually found it refreshing when she said "Come to Momma" and stated her preference loud and proud. I am not a young butch and not looking for a Momma, but it was just refreshing because we don't hear it that often I don't think. We hear plenty about Daddy/girl (which is great, don't get me wrong!) and older butch with younger femme, but not that much about Mommas or younger butches with older femmes.
In my experience (both personal and from observation) there are lots of femmes who are very open to potential relationships with butches that are older than them and even significantly older. So I don't see ageism at work in terms of it being a widespread problem where older butches are not desired or valued by femmes- just my opinion!