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How Do You Identify?: Femme
Preferred Pronoun?: She, please.
Relationship Status: Super grateful to not be tangled up with anyone (celibate by choice).
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Bump
Bumping this thread today because our slice of the universe is under-represented, not discussed very often, but I feel we need ways to express ourselves.
My Sugarbear is fully transitioned, going on now about 5 years.
He is bald (side effect of T- tx's), but his baldness is super f*cking sexy to me.
One of the 'big deal' things about him, again, to me, is that he is dialed into my type of personality characteristics (+\-). For example, he totally gets my 'let me give you a swift kick to the head' way of dealing with problematic issues I encounter on a daily basis. He also smiles when people mistakenly address me with a "Yes, Sir" rather than a "Yes, Ma'am", although it does not really matter to me because when people do that, I know my physical presentation collides with their perception of me.
The day we found each other is still like a mystery to me, but I can't express enough what a difference he makes in my life.
I heart him with all my heart.
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“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, then you have chosen the side of the oppressor,”
— Archbishop Desmond Tutu.
“A winner is a dreamer who never gives up,”
—Nelson Mandela
“When someone shows you who they are,
believe them the first time,”
— Maya Angelou

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