very interesting topic...thank you for bringing it up....as a hyper sensitive person i find it very frustrating being around those who are not sensitive..yet i have them all around me...
my interactions with them tend to be very confusing and frustrating...both of us feeling like we are not being understood, and yes there is a tendency out of frustration to lash out...and then feel guilty afterwards...
i try to be aware of these situations...and accept the other person for who they are, but in return the other person has to understand that i am my own person as well...
i dont have any answers as i struggle every day...to understand and be understood...all i can say is forgive yourself when you fail and dont make the same mistake twice