Sometimes the only closure that there is or that truly matters is the closure within oneself.
There is no one easy answer for what works and it may be different for each of us.
I believe that the passage of time is the only closure that there really is and sometimes there really are no clear-cut answers.
I am really sorry that you are hurting and hope that your heart is able to heal.
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner