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Originally Posted by Girl_On_Fire
Hello,
Curious femme here. Lately, I've noticed on certain lesbian websites butches are referred to as "studs". This seems to be a generational thing with younger butches especially using the term. I find if off-putting because to me the term "stud" implies some type of breeding stock.
Thoughts on this?
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Hi Girl,
Stud can also be defined as the structural part of a wall that eventually holds up the house itself...And isn't that what being butch is about? Strength, tenacity of will and structure....all a part of the foundation of life.
So, next time you hear stud and it offends you to think of it in "breeding stock" terms....think of it in this way...
there are always two sides to every story....just how you look at it that makes the world of difference.
MacDaddy