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WintergreenGem · 09-01-2012, 08:09 PM

Hi there people. It's been what seems like a million years since I have been to this site. Almost four weeks ago Graham and I had to pick up and move to Nebraska. We are without jobs, money, etc. Anyway...that is all on that topic. I'm just grateful that Graham's mom is helping out while we stress to get jobs to get back to how we normally live.

What I really wanted to talk about is this: We are an older couple (52 and 54). I am having a very hard time believing that I am this age. Again...another story. I went onto YouTube and Google search to try to find interesting videos, stories, etc about other butches and femmes. I found a load of stuff, but it was all the younger generations. I found an awesome series on YouTube called "Between Women", but that is only for black lesbians/studs. I watched it anyway because no matter what generation we are we all have gone through the same kinds of things. I just wanted to vent I guess. My questions are: what happens to femmes and butches when they become older? Do they hide out at home and disconnect from the social networks? Do they become staunch?

09-01-2012, 08:09 PM	#256
WintergreenGem Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Ms, Miss Relationship Status: Married to Graham Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Lincoln, Nebraska Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 347 Thanked 505 Times in 140 Posts Rep Power: 6005573	Hi there people. It's been what seems like a million years since I have been to this site. Almost four weeks ago Graham and I had to pick up and move to Nebraska. We are without jobs, money, etc. Anyway...that is all on that topic. I'm just grateful that Graham's mom is helping out while we stress to get jobs to get back to how we normally live. What I really wanted to talk about is this: We are an older couple (52 and 54). I am having a very hard time believing that I am this age. Again...another story. I went onto YouTube and Google search to try to find interesting videos, stories, etc about other butches and femmes. I found a load of stuff, but it was all the younger generations. I found an awesome series on YouTube called "Between Women", but that is only for black lesbians/studs. I watched it anyway because no matter what generation we are we all have gone through the same kinds of things. I just wanted to vent I guess. My questions are: what happens to femmes and butches when they become older? Do they hide out at home and disconnect from the social networks? Do they become staunch? __________________ Did you take the time to truly know?