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thedivahrrrself · 08-16-2013, 06:55 AM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
Stand up for myself, face conflict without so much fear

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
chemistry

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
health
happiness and love - I know it should be happiness, then love, but I've had that backwards for so long, it's a hard habit to break, so we'll call them tied.
money
fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
decisiveness, resolve

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
confused

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
self-discovery

7. In one sentence, who are you?
A geeky woman and a nerdy child wandering through life trying to make the most of it, being fascinated and thoroughly confused by it most of the time.

8. What do you want to be known for?
Being a helping hand

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
Funny, I have been trying to do that for a while.... my friends probably most, also the raw beauty of Green Country, and sometimes, the thunderstorms.

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
I could be literally anywhere a year from now, if I get one of these jobs.

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
I only keep people around me who help build confidence, so all my friends and family. Of course, they can also tell me when I'm being an ass

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
Flexibility - the ability to adapt and change and do things on a whim
Good Counsel - the ability to honestly, kindly and compassionately lead me to the answers I'm seeking, also the ability to have differing opinions without it causing a schizm
Kindness - the ability to look at others with a kind heart, not to judge, and to treat them well.

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
Being bolder, confronting people

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
To go to space

15. What stands between you and what you want?
Lately, a lack of motivation and being too focused on what's going on internally rather than externally.

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
Turn up the music, sing at the top of my lungs, and dance in my living room

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
When I nearly went blind at age 22

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
working LOL I have been slacking off a bit lately.

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
I'm getting better about this, but I would have to say how my past affects my relationship with myself and others.

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
Look down on people around them

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
People who don't know me well tend to think I'm somewhat stoic and unemotional, because I don't tend to show my emotions unless I know you well.

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
My ability to go all in, throw caution to the wind

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
water

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
passion

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
thermal waters

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
I absolutely have to start making time for me to be more active. Mainly, this means I'm going to have to start getting up earlier in the morning, and I really hate mornings

27. If not now, then when?
Tomorrow. Or maybe next week. Have you not read the procrastinators' bible?

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
In the past three years, I helped a man go from living under a bridge to running a successful small business, with a car and a house of his own.
Close 2nd - making it through grad school without losing all my hair.

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
I can be powerful.

30. What do you want to remember forever?
The lessons I have learned from all the "teachers" in my life.

31. What could society do without?
bigotry

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
That time will tell

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
Stupidity and celebrity are not things to be celebrated.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
Tell people about my history

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
guns

36. What didn't last forever, but was still worth your while?
relationships - you learn so much about yourself, your needs, your boundaries. You just have to keep building on these lessons and not repeat the same mistakes. The pain is worth the learning experience.

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
You're not worthless. You're stronger than you think. And be nice to your joints!

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
A prayer

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you've done?
Nope, I've led an interesting life full of adventure.

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
What should I do?
Why did I do that?
What's next?

08-16-2013, 06:55 AM	#55
thedivahrrrself Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Sapiosexual Femme Relationship Status: Mrs. Grumpy Cat Tournaments Won: 4 Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: 8,660 feet high in the Andes Posts: 2,640 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,519 Thanked 11,662 Times in 2,292 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Stand up for myself, face conflict without so much fear 2. What's been on your mind most lately? chemistry 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? health happiness and love - I know it should be happiness, then love, but I've had that backwards for so long, it's a hard habit to break, so we'll call them tied. money fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? decisiveness, resolve 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? confused 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? self-discovery 7. In one sentence, who are you? A geeky woman and a nerdy child wandering through life trying to make the most of it, being fascinated and thoroughly confused by it most of the time. 8. What do you want to be known for? Being a helping hand 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Funny, I have been trying to do that for a while.... my friends probably most, also the raw beauty of Green Country, and sometimes, the thunderstorms. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I could be literally anywhere a year from now, if I get one of these jobs. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? I only keep people around me who help build confidence, so all my friends and family. Of course, they can also tell me when I'm being an ass 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Flexibility - the ability to adapt and change and do things on a whim Good Counsel - the ability to honestly, kindly and compassionately lead me to the answers I'm seeking, also the ability to have differing opinions without it causing a schizm Kindness - the ability to look at others with a kind heart, not to judge, and to treat them well. 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Being bolder, confronting people 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? To go to space 15. What stands between you and what you want? Lately, a lack of motivation and being too focused on what's going on internally rather than externally. 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Turn up the music, sing at the top of my lungs, and dance in my living room 17. When did you first realize that life is short? When I nearly went blind at age 22 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? working LOL I have been slacking off a bit lately. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? I'm getting better about this, but I would have to say how my past affects my relationship with myself and others. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Look down on people around them 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? People who don't know me well tend to think I'm somewhat stoic and unemotional, because I don't tend to show my emotions unless I know you well. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My ability to go all in, throw caution to the wind 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? water 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? passion 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? thermal waters 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? I absolutely have to start making time for me to be more active. Mainly, this means I'm going to have to start getting up earlier in the morning, and I really hate mornings 27. If not now, then when? Tomorrow. Or maybe next week. Have you not read the procrastinators' bible? 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? In the past three years, I helped a man go from living under a bridge to running a successful small business, with a car and a house of his own. Close 2nd - making it through grad school without losing all my hair. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? I can be powerful. 30. What do you want to remember forever? The lessons I have learned from all the "teachers" in my life. 31. What could society do without? bigotry 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? That time will tell 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Stupidity and celebrity are not things to be celebrated. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Tell people about my history 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? guns 36. What didn't last forever, but was still worth your while? relationships - you learn so much about yourself, your needs, your boundaries. You just have to keep building on these lessons and not repeat the same mistakes. The pain is worth the learning experience. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? You're not worthless. You're stronger than you think. And be nice to your joints! 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? A prayer 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you've done? Nope, I've led an interesting life full of adventure. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What should I do? Why did I do that? 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