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Originally Posted by kittygrrl
Personally if you can't trust me with your assets, why in the world would you want to marry me or visa versa? You don't need legal paper to live together.
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No matter how I toss it around, I agree with this sentiment. If either of us feels iffy about going all in with regard to love, finances, combined households, raising children, etc then we can just remain an unmarried couple. that is a good way to protect yourself from me and any of my nefarious ways that you may think are hidden and laying in wait.
But if you are saying you want to get married, to *me* that means all in. All the way in the ring. 0 limbs outside.
I do own a business that I alone am investing in and I do have land that I will inherit, but the way I see it...there are so many worse things I can and will lose during the breakdown of a marriage that are dear.