08-25-2011, 10:19 AM
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How Do You Identify?: Femme
Preferred Pronoun?: Feminine pronouns
Relationship Status: Not looking
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To parent to a full grown adult. I do not mean one of my own full grown adult children, that is different. Well, done differently, now.
For an instant relationship after three dates.
To not put myself first in a healthy, functional way always. I am surprised at how many do not do so, including me, before realizing it is the only way to be happy. I am not espousing selfish, dysfunctional response, I am saying self must be an important part of ANY relationship. Thank goodness for AlAnon.
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" Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place." ~Zora Neale Hurston
"Talk to yourself from the perspective of truly being willing to do whatever it takes rather than relying on the same old excuses that keep you from making those changes. You'll be thrilled with yourself when you adopt an 'I'm willing' attitude."
— Dr. Wayne Dyer
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