[Mister Bent]

Originally Posted by Jackhammer

Looking for a descriptor would be in kind a label, no? .... Yes ?

Originally Posted by BullDog

I certainly don't think of my gender identity as a label. To quote someone from somewhere, labels are for soup cans.

Originally Posted by Braedon

Well you know what they say right?

Labels are for soup cans

But why do soup cans have labels? We all know what a can of soup looks like, right? But it sure is handy to know what flavor (because personally, I'd be pretty pissed if I wanted chicken and stars and got split pea).

On the other hand, I'm not having a conversation with a can of soup where I can learn what it's got going on inside.

Which brings me back to Jack's very pertinent comment. Is a label different than a descriptor? If we describe a man as tall and hairy, is that his label? Seems like he's probably much more than tall/hairy.

One can appear butch (physical descriptor), but not be butch, so how does butch apply as a label? Just as D-Money says by appearance she is sometimes (often?) called "femme," but she says femme is not who/what she is.

Another way to approach it - how does label relate to identity? Personally, I agree with BullDog - I don't see my gender identity as a label.