Soulmate?
I never really warmed up to the term "soulmate". Reason is - and this is strictly my opinion - it surrenders too much of a relationship to fate. I believe in chemistry, in the joy of being known, and sharing a deep, unique connection - plus a little bit of luck - but after those things we need to work really hard to keep it alive.
"Soulmate" always seemed too passive to me. Or an excuse to not stick around and see where things could go with someone, you know?
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