I haven’t been to a shady lesbian bar. I have been to shady straight bars when I was young with straight friends. But that’s about it.
Mostly I’ve been to mixed crowd gay dance clubs. There’s one here that won’t let you in unless they think you look good enough to be there. I had no clue they did that until about my fifth time going and someone was sitting outside on the curb because they wouldn’t let them in. Anyway off subject sorry.
I am finding this thread an amusing read though.