Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?: She, her
Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: West Coast
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I totally agree femme is not about make-up, heels, etc. Never wear heels or use makeup, well ok, occasionally I will powder my nose if it is shiny and I guess I have been known to curl my eyelashes-hey I like how it looks.
I wear my hair long just because it feels like *me*.
Joking aside, those are superficial things.
To me, femme is an essence, the counterpoint to a butch, the ying and yang, my complement, if you will.
The same way I can spot a butch a mile away in a snowstorm, I can spot a femme, regardless of how she is dressed.
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