...some of you may be interested in this new book -- her name is Robin Sneed and you can find some of her writings on the Open Salon forum.
From what I read of her posts, it might be something to look into. I plan on it. (I don't know her!)
Here's the link to the book, but I would suggest reading her writings on OS first--she's good and gets some of us I think.
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