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Originally Posted by SelfMadeMan
By that, I mean, what is usually considered femme attributes (wearing makeup, dressing feminine, etc etc)
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This is what I read into SMM's post as well. That he meant that there are certain stereotypes about butches and femmes, and that his wife doesn't fit the stereotype of femme/what is stereotypically expected of femme gender expression, not that he was trying to reinforce the stereotype. When he said "normative" I figured he meant that stereotype.