I have survived so much in my life...things legends are made of. So I always tell myself I did all that..I can do (this) too.
I also am a firm believe in giving time time. Wait it out. Sometimes thats all I can do.
and if I am feeling particularly horsey at the time, my fall backs are...
"Just ride it like a good horse"
"Sit in the saddle until the ride is over..."
But then I also ask myself, whats my choice? To do this or die? Or lose a job? Or a friendship or? Just do it then.
And my last resort pep talk is "you know you wont survive prison"
and I mean it when I actually have to pull this one out!
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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