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Originally Posted by apretty
love and appreciation for butches of all size--providing they're lovely people on the inside.
the trouble i have with the thread resides only in the *name* of the thread because it seems to speak about/to/for people 'of size' and the tone and subsequent posts by the OP read more like: 'my sudden weight gain/my medical issue'.
rarely do 'big butches' find themselves in this kind of situation where they woke up one morning *fat* (speaking from my big-girl place), more than likely this has been a much longer road that we've navigated and it feels like, for me, someone is trying to facilitate from his place of 'recent weight gain' the *life* we've spent a lifetime *living* (which, generally speaking, would be his *privileged place*)
which is not to say that the original questions aren't valid--i was just *expecting* a fat-butch-love-song (thread).
size matters. 
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You're right, it took twists and turns on my part certainly, hopefully we're getting it straightened out.